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EDITOR’S NOTE:

Just one of the stories you hear of and you wonder “What is wrong with the world”?…

This story you’re about to read had gone viral on whatsapp earlier this week. Regardless of the length, I decided to delve into it because of the caption that caught my eye “Please share with every youth you know. Please! Please!! Please!!!” By now you would already know how very passionate I am in speaking out against injustice, especially where it concerns women and children. I cannot tell you of the validity of the story but it’s no different from what you’ve seen, heard or experienced. She may be telling your story too!

Social media has become so popular over the years. It’s almost like a second nature. Some hop on it for the right reasons, and some for all the wrong reasons. Yet, for many, it’s a Lets-go-fishing affair…to catch the naive and the easily carried away for all their selfish reasons. This story, just like many we’ve heard of is a constant reminder that on this large biosphere tagged “social media”, not everyone is your friend! Just like I did, from this story, you would learn of contentment, of upholding of one’s values and principles (Maintain your Do’s and Don’t. Don’t compromise. Don’t get swayed!), and most especially about “Trends”. Today’s trend is nothing but a Fad! It will die off sooner than you know but will you remain the same till another trend spurs up the society or would you have lost your sense of value like the girl in the story?

READ ON…………

My name is Chinwe, I am 26 years old. I never graduated from university, simply because I was stupid and careless. On my 24th birthday, I received a nice gift. It was a blackberry phone.

I always wanted one, it was like a right of passage, my ex-boyfriend got it for me, he was a student like me, didn’t have a job, and I really never cared to ask as he could afford it, my concern at that point was, yes I had finally arrived.

The other girls in my hostel had blackberry phones and I would always get pissed when I heard sounds of pings and messages coming into their phones at all hours and I would stare at my Nokia phone and wish I could throw it away, but half bread they say is better than none. So, I hoped and even fasted to get a blackberry phone, and looking back now, if I had the opportunity, I’d have a landline with no internet activity whatsoever.  

Anyway I got the blackberry phone and even got free BIS subscription, at that moment my life was complete, no more going to the cyber cafes to check my emails, my Facebook or twitter, I had it all at my fingertips.

Life indeed was complete, or so I thought.

Anyway, I became addicted to my blackberry and also my social media applications, and since I had constant
access, I quickly gained enough followers, and especially guys, mostly because I had a lot of erotic pictures on my timeline. I was popular.

Finally I felt I was the main girl. Everyone wanted to follow me and I didn’t care if it was virtual. It felt
good, checking out my profile and having well over 8,000 followers, more than half of which were guys, but one particular guy caught my attention. Till this day, I don’t know what made him stand out, but we got chatty, he sent me direct messages and I replied. He was quite a gentleman , and I can’t remember him ever asking for a nude picture unlike the rest of them, so this made me comfortable with him.

His name is Tobi. He said he was a doctor , and I didn’t have any cause to doubt him. He had extensive knowledge and even gave me some medical advice from time to time. We eventually moved from twitter to blackberry chat, where chatted all the time. I got so comfortable with him, I gave him my number, and that would come to be
the biggest mistake I ever made.

Tobi called me every day, some days he called more than once, at night he would call and I would lay on my bed and have phone sex with him, his voice was so soothing, he made me do things I never thought possible, he
had gained so much access into my head, I realized later I had done some very sick and twisted things just to please him. I would take nude pictures of myself and send to him,  videos of me touching myself in private, and voice notes of me making moaning sounds and simulating orgasms, and all this while, we had not met, not face to face at least.

Eventually I played into his hands. I began pestering to meet him in person, at this point I had lost my mind. I assumed I was in-love with him, and when my boyfriend at the time broke up with me, I really welcomed it. For me it meant no more sneaking around.

Tobi eventually agreed to come to Lagos to meet me. All this while he had made me to believe he was in Calabar, and would take time off work to spend a weekend with me in Lagos. W hen I heard this, I was excited. He told me to book a reservation for him, stating he would pay me back as soon as he arrived and also he said it would make him more committed to the visit and would convince him of my seriousness, I bought it all.

He was smart, he was cunning, and I was stupid. Oh how stupid I was!

The funny thing was I had sent him tons of pictures, and all I had was just one picture of him, and whenever I asked, he would claim he wanted to be sure I loved him for him, and not for his looks. Sheepishly, I would try to convince him of my undying love, and would try to appease him with nude pictures of my body.

He eventually made it to Lagos. I met him at the hotel. He was tall, handsome and had a wonderful smile, he made love to me over and over, and convinced me to spend the night with him, I told him I couldn’t, because I had a test the next morning.

Now at this point, I don’t know what triggered his anger, don’t know if it was because I couldn’t spend the night, or maybe I said something else I can’t remember saying, but whatever it was, brought out a very ugly side of him. He called me foul names, and kept going on and on about how he always knew I was cheap, and how he knew I was sleeping with other men. The same man whom had swept me away, slammed me on the floor. He told me of how he had shown his friends all my nude pictures and how they had watched the videos and listened to the voice notes. He told me he had made a bet with his friends, that I would actually pay for him to have sex with me, just to prove how stupid I was. Well you can imagine how I felt!

I was confused and shocked, but I attempted to regain any little dignity I had left. And so I tried to mouth off at him, suddenly he punched me in the face, and I tripped over, and hit my head on a stool. The next thing I remember was waking up on the bed. I was tied up, and he was staring at me. His eyes were dark and he had a sinister smile on his lips, he stood up and walked towards me. I tried to scream and realized my mouth was tapped, my head was racing. The unfortunate part was that no one knew where I was. He turned me over, and told me he was going to teach me a lesson. At this point I was naked!

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He rapped me from behind, and I mean my anus. The pain was mind blowing. I struggled, and he hit me and when he was done he brought out a small blade, and looked at me for a minute, then he said, “this scare is going to always serve as a reminder, for girls like you always trying to be more than you are, for stupid fools like you”. 

He put the blade to my nipple and cut it off, and anytime I think of it, I still feel the pain. It was like nothing I had ever felt before. He was calm, like he had done it a million times before. I could feel the warm blood dripping down my mutilated breast, tears of fear and pain running down my face, and suddenly he turned around again, this time
all I saw was a flash.

I don’t know how I survived it, but I woke up in a hospital days after. well I was awake, but my eyes were swollen shut. It took a couple of days for me to open my one good eye, and realize the damage he had done. He had
plucked out my eye, and cut my face. He had cut my breasts up real bad, they had to it out, like I had cancer or something. There was no record of who I was, because he had taken everything, he had taken my bag, containing everything I had.

I was able to tell the nurses about what I could remember, and also give them my mum’s phone number. The hospital felt so much pity, they actually treated me for free, hard to believe right?

Anyway I was taken home after weeks at the hospital to recuperate. It was tough! I was blind in one eye, I had
one breast and a hideous scar on my face. He did a number on me, how dumb was I, sometimes I wish he had killed me, but there are fates worse than death, and I guess this is one of them. He was gone without a trace! The receipt from the hotel was in my name, so yes he had played me from the start.

I didn’t dare go back to school, I was sure everyone would have heard, and I was not going to become a statistic,
so I decided to stay home, and mind my business, besides what do I need an education for, I’d rather stay home, because there is no rising from this, there is no happy ending to this story. This is the simple ending.

I was a victim if a sexual predator, and I let him into my life period, and I take full responsibility for that. I was driven by greed and lack of morals, I allowed myself fall into an abyss, but well saying all this doesn’t change anything, it’s a memory I will have to live with for the rest of my life. Well not a memory, because I look at myself in the mirror everyday, who would want to see a nude picture of a woman with one breast, one eye, and a stub.

I have decided to publish my story, because with the rise of social media atrocities being committed, every story can go a long way in saving a life, so while you read, SHARE and help someone back to the right path. These internet predators are real.

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Story by: Anonymous…

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